When presented with options in front of you, you are often going to think ‘Oh I really want to do this’ or ‘Oh I really want to do that’. The point of the matter is that at any one time everyone is making a decision about something in their mind.
Sometimes people will decide quite easily, other times it will be more difficult. Essentially they’re at a crossroads. Pretty much every E-list celebrity has been in the situation before: they’re positively #undecided.
1. They Don’t Settle for Second Best
Human psychology tells us that we should always go for the best option. However, not everyone always does. Often people with low self esteem go for an option that leaves them worse off. Isn’t this crazy? Allow me to analyse this for you.
Basically someone goes for the worse off option because they don’t have the strength to be a better person. Sometimes they are just stone cold lazy. Often going for something that is better forces you to lock heads and fight for something.
Someone with a stronger mentality will really go for it and try to take what they want. Whereas the person with a lower self esteem will back down and just give in to the more powerful force. There are some crucial survival of the fittest elements at play here.
The fact is even if the weakest person had a go they would be better off. Yeah they might’ve been crushed but they would’ve learnt something from the experience and ultimately come out of it a better person.
Only if someone rises to a challenge will they see an increase in their status. This mentality is pervasive in the dog eat dog celebrity world.
2. They Are Always Hungry for More
There is a sad case of a person that it is worth pointing attention towards. It is the person who thinks they are not worthy of greatness. They have everything of the world, a family that loves them, a car, but they don’t take ownership of any of it.
Even the biggest billionaires among us still feel they are worthy of more power, they constantly want more.
The formidable strong person takes everything they can get without backing down at any point.
The person who thinks they deserve nothing is always shooting themselves in the foot. This is such a death trap mindset. Unfortunately, there are many people who fall into this category and it is the main reason why they do not get anywhere in life.
The fact is you have to have high sense of self esteem. You have to feel as if you deserve everything and more.
3. No One Can Bring Them Down
Often people fall down because they are bullied or made fun of. What is required in this situation is to be a little bit aggressive.
Sometimes it is normal and acceptable to be aggressive especially if someone is trying to make you feel small. At this point if you show aggression people will see that you are a force to reckon with.
Others will see that you are capable of giving some back. Some will back off a bit. But it never stops, people will always try to pull down the top dog. It’s just the way it is.
Pretty much everyone has been bullied at some point in their lives. Made to feel small or unappreciated. No one likes being in this position – where someone is made to feel like they are not deserved of any self worth.
Those who are strong in the mind relish the challenge. They know that challenges are going to pop up time and time again and they rise to meet them. Basically they do not let anyone mess with them.
The haters still get to them of course but they are steadfast and have confidence in their own conviction. This makes someone more attractive to other people and this is where the ‘law of attraction’ comes into play.
Someone has stood their ground against all odds and people love to see that being played out.
4. They Genuinely Care About Other People
Pretty much every time that someone is being bullied it is because of someone else’s anxiety. This bully feels that they have to belittle people in some shape or form.
This is normal psychology to direct your own anxieties towards and put down those who you think are smaller than you. But the target of this kind of bullying cannot let it get to them.
They have to have the strength in their mind to rise above that kind of a nonsense bashing. They need to realize that they cannot let anyone like this get in their head space.
Some people are more sensitive to it than others. Some people are highly sensitive and basically everything that happens in their environment affects them.
It is important to be mindful of these super sensitive people. Really it is important to be mindful in every situation.
With these super sensitive types it is really important because they are just so sensitive that you need to be super careful. And it will come as a surprise who the most sensitive of us are. You would never believe how sensitive some people you know personally: it is incredible.
E-listers are tuned in and aware of other people’s sensibilities. They know how to appeal to these people in order to improve their own fortunes. They often use really good instagram names as well.
The most important thing to draw from this is that it is important to be aggressive sometimes.
People have different wants, desires and fears. In order to get what you want you have to show it to people and to not back down once you get it.
The law of attraction comes into play here because if someone fights for what they have got then people will naturally be drawn to them as a source of strength. After this that person will emerge a more well-rounded person.